Growing up is tough. Leaving college and entering adulthood can make you feel like you’re in that awkward puberty stage all over again. Although it may seem like lots of young women have their lives together and know exactly what they’re doing, growing up is a transition that everyone struggles with and can use some pointers on.
While this article won’t tell you how to figure out your taxes or get a handle on the dating scene, it will tell you five things every young woman needs that will help make her transition into adulthood a lot smoother.
1. A Timeless Black Dress
The little black dress is great when you’re going out to clubs or on a steamy date, but a professional, sleek black dress is a wardrobe staple every woman needs. Don’t settle for low quality or a bargain price; be willing to pay over $100 for a well-fitting, longer black dress that can be worn everywhere from office meetings to dinner parties.
- Shoes that Don’t Hurt
Wearing heels to the office can make you feel like a real powerhouse, but they usually result in a lot of pain. Instead of forcing yourself to suffer for the sake of fashion, invest in some black and nude pumps you can pair with anything. The chunkier heel will make them more comfortable than stilettos, and their iconic design makes them easy to dress up or down.
- A Good Handbag
Whether you’re a purse fanatic or only like to carry your essentials in a wallet, every young woman needs a reliable handbag that effortlessly transitions from work to play. Consider brands like Posh Pawn, Kate Spade and Calvin Klein; look for a bag that will allow you to haul your laptop, lunch and more comfortably and stylishly.
- Good Bedding
You may still be living at home or crammed into a small room in a city apartment, but as long as you have a bed to sleep it, it needs to be properly made. Instead of your college sheets and mismatched pillow cases, buy a full bedding set and matching sheets.
At the least, a set will include a comforter and pillow case, though some will also include decorative pillows and a throw. Where you lay your head has a bigger impact than you think, and classy, coordinated decor makes for a more productive and relaxing room.
- Expensive Makeup
You don’t need to spend hundreds of dollars at Sephora to look good, but you should start to swap some of your drugstore go-tos for higher end brands as you get older. A more expensive foundation, concealer, eyeshadow and lipstick will help you look and feel more mature and confident.
Finding Your Own Style
These suggestions are just a few pointers to get you started on your journey into adulthood. As you grow and have new experiences, you’ll undoubtedly find your own staples that you can’t live without. Don’t be afraid to experiment, but don’t sell yourself short and settle for less, either. There’s a whole world to explore out there, and it’s waiting for you to seize the day, dressed to impress and feeling like a million bucks.
